Angel-A

July 30, 2006 at 3:23 pm | In Entertainment | 1 Comment

angel-a.jpg      Last Friday I went to see the French movie ‘Angel-A’ in CineWorld in Fulham Road. Beyond the beautiful scenes of Paris in this black-and-white film from French director-producer-writer Luc Besson, I was struck by the message behind the movie, advocating self-acceptance and self-love.

The story is about Andre (Jamel Debbouze), a short, dark and incompetent Algerian conman in Paris who owes a large amount of money to loan sharks and who clearly cannot pay them back. As his desparation increases, he thinks of jumping off a bridge in an attempt to end his life, and meets Angel-A (Rie Rasmussen), a mysterious, beautiful blonde who shares similar desperate suicidal thoughts. He saves her from her suicidal act and she decides to help him clear his debts and see his life from a different angle. We discover that she is actually his guardian angel and her mission on Earth is to help him find himself.

According to Luc Besson himself, the story ‘deals with the sickness of the century — the fact that we are not comfortable with ourselves. It’s difficult to watch yourself in the mirror and say I love you. If you don’t like yourself then you cannot like others. So let’s try this simple act, — making peace with ourselves — then maybe things will be better’ (The Times, July 22, 2006).

“Angela is the exact opposite of what Andre is. It’s the yin and the yang,” continues Besson. “He’s scared all the time; she’s never scared. He doesn’t feel good in his body, he has three coats; she has just a little piece of cloth, she doesn’t care. She’s smiling; she sees the good side of life. He sees the bad side. She wants to prove to him that the other half is inside him. She says, ‘I am you,’ and he says, ‘What, I’m a 6″ tall blond girl?’ She replies, ‘Yes you are – inside’ (Interview for Channel4).

This movie reflects the ego disturbance that some of us may experience at some point in our life. Besson’s film depicts beautifully what we therapists call ’the specific principle of emotional responsability’: one is making oneself feel anxious/unhappy/unlovable because one is accepting possible negative judgements in one’s own heads. Working on this unhealthy, irrational belief can help one think in a more positive way and change the unhealthy negative ’self damning’ belief with a more appropriate, healthy belief of self acceptance and self-love.

For those who would like to see the movie trailer, please follow the URL hereafter: http://www.allocine.co.uk/webtv/acvision.asp?cvid=0:18636252,18636264,18636292&emission=Angel-A

To access a short clip of the movie, click on the following URL and select the link named ’Clip’ (the last one in the list): http://www.allocine.co.uk/webtv/film.html?cfilm=61511

Enjoy!

Stephanie - info@thefocusclinic.co.uk

Message from Mr Blair

July 26, 2006 at 10:40 pm | In News | Leave a Comment

images1.jpg       According to todays Guardian newspaper, Prime Minister Tony Blair ‘urged the public to take more responsibility for their own health as he warned the NHS was under “increasing strain” from the results of excessive drinking, eating and smoking’.

The full article is available on the Guardian website: http://politics.guardian.co.uk/publicservices/story/0,,1830606,00.html

Further to this new initiative, I would like to emphasize that making changes in one’s life is far from easy, particularly with respect to habits. A habit is a repeated pattern of behaviour that becomes an automatic response coming from the sub-conscious. Habit changes are therefore quite difficult to achieve, and may take some time. Cognitive Behavioural Therapies and Clinical Hypnotherapy can assist in achieving this goal.

Whether one’s goal is to stop smoking, eating or drinking alcohol, do not lose faith. From the moment you acknowledge the fact that a change is required in your life, you have probably taken the most important step towards your target. So, keep the faith, and get the professional help which will ease this process.

Stephanie - info@thefocusclinic.co.uk

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